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Tongue-Twister Sweepstakes for Spiritual Singles Over Forty

January 31, 20231 min read

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As we approach Valentine's Day 2023, the School For Love acknowledges how difficult "cuffing season" is for singles -- that period between fall chilliness through winter, culminating with Valentine's Day. Instead, we challenge singles with a self-affirmation embedded in a tongue-twister!

#BetterPicker reminds singles of their say in the matter -- that it's not the "luck of the draw". Instead, you control your mindset, your reactions, whom you spend time chatting with, and the strategy you use in dating.

"What -- strategy in dating?!?" mimics Paul Aaron Travis, founder of the School For Love. "Absolutely, otherwise you're winging it every time."

Pew Research found recently that the vast majority of such singles say their dating lives are not going well, due to lingering effects from Covid.

Soooo many midlife singles lament bad partner choices that they conclude their Picker must be Broken. And thus was born the tongue-twister:

"Picker's not broken -- I'll pick better with a better picker"

The School For Love is running a sweepstakes around this. Entrants earn one point for entering and additional points for posting their tongue-twister video on Facebook/Instagram/Tiktok/Twitter -- along with the hashtag #BetterPicker and link to

See TikTok example: .

Multiple entrants will win The Great Dating Reset program -- a twelve-week course and support system for Spiritual Singles Over Forty to manifest or femifest the relationship of their dreams.

Entrants simply record themselves saying the tongue-twister and entering at Winners will be notified on Feb. 15, 2023.

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Paul Aaron Travis

Paul’s commitment to making dating joyful, respectful, expansive and consensual comes from extensive training in interpersonal relations — from Nonviolent Communication to the Wheel of Consent, from Landmark Education to Human Awareness International, from Body Electric to ISTA/Tantra. In his early years, Paul cofacilitated the Seattle Men’s Wisdom Council, working with hundreds of men every month. In the years since his divorce, he has dated dozens and dozens and dozens of women – mostly first dates which didn’t yield sufficient chemistry to go further. Yet this practice manifested 3 wonderful, multi-year relationships – helping him create the Authintimacy method he now teaches in The Great Dating Reset and Dating Sherpa.

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