Everything in the entire universe is always about love.
And when it isn't about love,
it's about the absence of love.
We're Told Love Just Happens...
Then, just as soon as we feel it, life runs our hearts through the washer and dryer -- whether with partners, parents, children, friends, or community members!
Here at the School For Love, we honor the multiple dimensions of love over age 40: philia -- friendship, eros -- romantic love, storge -- familial love, and agape -- universal compassion.
As Carl Jung put it: After age 40, we begin our magnum opus period of self-becoming... “up until then you are just doing research.”
Contemporary research shows we live longer and healthier with more love in our life, so take our Authintimacy Quiz now and let's get back into learning mode!
This recorded symposium brings together love, relationship, and life experts --
empowering you to change your approach to dating so you finally find (create) the loving relationship you deserve.
A 12-week coaching/support program for changing the patterns that keep you and your dating stuck. We go through exercises to clarify why exactly you're dating, what you want and what you want to avoid... you'll create a profile that truly reflects you and wards off mismatches... you'll learn to ask better questions and pace connection wisely... and make choices that help you manifest/femifest what you really want in relationship! Available in group and private formats.
See the two-sided cycle behind disconnection, then use the Authintimacy Framework to bring more honesty, warmth, and connection into everyday moments. Choose the ebook, audiobook, or both.
An intimate, life-changing, in-person experience -- highly recommended!
This intimate, life-changing retreat is a safe and supportive sisterhood, where you reconnect with your bodies and embrace yourself— unlocking deeper pleasure and connection.
Besides the common notion of romantic/erotic love is brotherly love...
For spiritual men in their prime who've felt life knock the wind out of them... this 12-week program rebuilds esteem and confidence along with accountability for your comeback!
Explore new techniques with super-honest videos, animations & how-to’s from the largest-ever research study into pleasure (20,000 women!)
Inspiration for women, men & couples, solo or together.
Of the six primary challenges to every relationship, the Authintimacy framework addresses the two biggies. This workshop helps you put the model into practice for clarity and closeness.
Read Experiences with The School For Love . . .
Theresa
Bellingham WA
“I joined a School For Love dating event and love the innovative thinking that brought that about. The Covid pandemic changed so many relationships for me, and dating is no exception. I could see from the depth and honesty of our conversation, that the folks in that event are interested in personal and inner work… how refreshing! I appreciated the no-pressure atmosphere that the facilitator established as a baseline. I’m looking forward to the next course or event, and getting to know others at a speed and intensity that makes sense for me.”
Sean
Rural Vermont
"Just wanted to follow up on the School For Love program I took part in recently.
It felt so good to hear perspectives from others who have their own doubts. I often feel alone in situations like this, yet in the end there are so many of us experiencing the same feelings. In fact, I heard someone express some of my very own inner thoughts!
Others surely will benefit from these structured conversations you’re facilitating, thanks so much.”
Heather
Austin TX
“As a woman of 43, single for a decade, recovering from the crazy Covid chapter of dating has been hard so Paul’s teachings are super helpful. Especially lately, when my self-care and self-worth hold such a high regard. A person who can cherish me as much as I cherish them would be ideal in my world. So here we are... navigating this new dating realm. The School For Love offers a great learning experience. I’ve learned to remind myself to not be too hard on myself in this process, that I now have the skills to attract the right person for me at the right divine timing – thank you!”
Our Vision
A world where spiritual people, grounded in the uniqueness of their being, full of love and esteem and purpose, connect with others joyfully and meaningfully for inspiration, learning, collaboration, growth, play, and pleasure – and in turn, groups of loving people positively impact the whole with cohesion and community.
The School For Love welcomes you regardless of your gender/identity, dating preference/exclusivity, race, religion, national origin, dis/abilities, medical choices, and age (though our current programs do focus on 40+).
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